You did something crazy and irresponsible. You had an affair. Now, even though the affair is over, your real relationship is dying. It looks like you’ll never get your man back, not the way things used to be, even if you two stay together. While you can’t completely erase what happened, there is a very powerful method you can use to salvage your relationship. It is called the Clean Slate Method.

The idea behind the Clean Slate Method is to apologize for what went wrong, but to do so in a way that can heal your relationship, rather than leave linger guilt and doubts. I can’t give you all the details in this article. I can, however, introduce you to this powerful approach to saving your relationship.

For the Clean Slate Method to work, you must take responsibility for the rift in your relationship. But you must not say that you were wrong. This isn’t about who was right and who was wrong. It is about taking responsibility for the rift yourself. If you tell him you had an affair because he didn’t give you enough attention, worked too late or whatever, what do you think will happen? You’ll have a war, not a reconciliation. You must take responsibility without saying that either of you was wrong

You must be able to put yourself in his shoes to understand what he is feeling. You must be able to acknowledge how what happened made your man feel. You must also be able to articulate your own feelings about why you had the affair, and how you feel now. And in both cases, you need to be able to do it without reference to who was right and who was wrong. Doing this requires the proper frame of mind and is much easier when you have a Clean Slate Method guide.

Finally, you must be able to sincerely apologize without defense and expectations. In other words, you must be able to apologize and accept that you may get nothing in return. Again, achieving the right mindset is crucial to doing this properly. And a guide can definitely help

Following the Clean Slate Method isn’t easy. But if you do it properly, you can truly wipe the slate clean and give your relationship the chance to fully recover from your affair. A detailed guide to using the Clean Slate Method is included as a bonus when you order T.W. Jackson’s Magic of Making Up relationship repair guide

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