Signs Of A Cheating Husband/boyfriend
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Are you wasting nights wondering if your relationship has floundered on the rocks, crunching your stomach each time he talks fearing those two words ‘it is over’? Totally understandable especially when you have grown comfy and don’t want to burst that fantasy fairy bubble of you and him living joyfully ever after.
Regrettably the signs that it’s coming to an end are all there so you cannot space out yourself forever. Here are some breakup signs.
1) Time is one amongst many apparent signs husband is not in love. How he spends his time speaks a lot about your relationship. If he doesn’t knock at your door anymore, avoids that cup of tea after work and generally ‘hurried’ becomes his favorite by word, then you have a serious problem. If he is the kind type or is too timid to break up with you, then he will give you a date after a long time but don’t be shocked though if he leaves in haste.It may not be new work obligations but maybe, just maybe, someone else is taking your time.
2)Lack of communication is another of the apparent breakup signs. A solid relationship is built on letting each other know whats happening. So if there are no calls from him and he either doesn’t return yours or does so once in a long while then he may be losing interest in you and you could be headed for a break up. Is it to much too ask that he at least leaves messages. If communication has died or is disappearing this is one among many obvious breakup signs and if you do not turn the tide, you’re done for!
3) Funds no longer come in your direction.When the money stops coming in, it’s time to pack your bags. Of course…you are not in it for his money. Well, if that helps you rest at night, but if he is not using some of his money on you, he is spending it on another love interest. Unless of course he is tight fisted who has never, even in the heady early days, spent any money on you. And that is a whole other problem. We spend our money on the things that we love or care about so if he is not using money on you then what does it say about how he thinks about you.
4) He has new tastes. A sign of a new influence in his life. Suddenly he loves the color pink for his shirts and ties although he formerly thought it was too feminine. He now takes hours at the mirror and has changed his cologne, this is one among many signs husband is not in love. Just out of interest, when was the last time he wore that shirt that you got him for christmas? Don’t sweat it girl, anothe woman is running his clothing tastes.
5) He is playing mind games. You have arguments over the tinyest things and lately the slightest thing seems to lead to a blow out, a great omen of a breakup. You walk on egg shells around him and any querries or remarks become an argument. He throws tantrums and says mean things! Beware, he is moving blame to confuse you.
